{"id":5983,"date":"2014-10-17T07:49:48","date_gmt":"2014-10-17T13:49:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/worldwanderlusting.com\/?p=5983"},"modified":"2014-10-16T22:00:50","modified_gmt":"2014-10-17T04:00:50","slug":"catch-lot-flies-honey-vinegar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/worldwanderlusting.com\/?p=5983","title":{"rendered":"You catch a lot more flies with honey than you do with vinegar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In life it seems like it is so easy to grab someone by the throat and yell at them when they don&#8217;t tell you what you&#8217;d like to hear. \u00a0Frankly this is the best option in rare scenarios, but sometimes it takes a soft approach to get what you&#8217;d like. \u00a0Think about it, when your kids throw a fit are you more likely to help them, or do you want to leave them in Wal-Mart with the people of Wal-Mart to care for them? \u00a0I&#8217;ve been tempted to leave my son behind a few times&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>Tonight I was faced with a peculiar circumstance. \u00a0A close friend called me up and explained that they weren&#8217;t going to be able to take an upcoming flight due to a medical circumstance. \u00a0The knee-jerk reaction was to call customer service, right? Wrong. \u00a0The scripted CSR replied that a change in itinerary would result in a $200 change fee. \u00a0OUCH!<\/p>\n<p>How do they dare charge you $200 because you just got diagnosed with cancer? \u00a0I took it upon myself to contact the real Customer Service team (@deltaassist) on Twitter. \u00a0We&#8217;ve talked about this before and explained that the best Customer Service is found on Twitter.<\/p>\n<h2>What was the title of this post?<\/h2>\n<p>Sorry if you&#8217;re confused about the title of this post. \u00a0It just basically means that you&#8217;ll get much farther with being nice, sweet, and loving to the customer service reps than you will being a grump. \u00a0Just like your child from the beginning, remember?<\/p>\n<p>My tweet mentioned that this person had been recently diagnosed with cancer and she was hoping to move the flight to another time later when she wasn&#8217;t in the middle of her treatments.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Her name is XXXXXX and the confirmation number is *********. \u00a0She recently had her thyroid removed &amp; now is prepping for radiation treatment. \u00a0Can you please waive the change fees?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Boom. \u00a0It was done before I knew it. \u00a0She had dropped the ticket, and given a voucher that could be used for up to 8 months from today without even flinching. \u00a0A simple please and a soft approach did much more than a fist to the jugular.<\/p>\n<h2>That Was Easy<\/h2>\n<p>Already we were worlds ahead of the initial phone call to customer service that took 4 times as long. \u00a0Victory was ours and we had saved $200.<\/p>\n<p>The idea behind a change fee does make sense. \u00a0It is tough to think that you&#8217;ve got a full flight when people are changing their flights at the last minute. \u00a0However, our circumstances were different. \u00a0An unforeseen medical condition had made travel extremely difficult. \u00a0Fortunately the CSR understood and was able to make a special adjustment for us.<\/p>\n<h2>Wait&#8230;.There is More&#8230;.<\/h2>\n<p>Somehow Delta scores extra points late in the game with their response to our next request. \u00a0We had this great idea that we could send her son on this vacation instead of putting the entire trip off to a later date. \u00a0We knew we were biting off more than we could chew.<\/p>\n<p>Sheepishly I fired up my twitter account again to visit with the CSR about ANOTHER potential change. \u00a0I made sure to start off with something really appreciative showing that they had already made our day with their current decision. \u00a0It went something like this&#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Thank you for all of your help tonight. \u00a0You&#8217;ve been most helpful. \u00a0Sally hasn&#8217;t been feeling well, and we appreciate you making the change. \u00a0This does present a different complication in that my wife was supposed to travel with Sally, who was going to help her with our two children. \u00a0They are ages 3 and 1. \u00a0Having someone go would be so helpful, is there any way that Sally&#8217;s son could take her place?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>The response came back quickly and cold.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Unfortunately tickets can&#8217;t be changed to other people&#8217;s names. \u00a0I&#8217;m sorry.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>I was stunned, but not knocked out. \u00a0I came back with a simple response:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Dang. \u00a0Is that some kind of law or a company policy?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Silence filled the airways for about 10 minutes. \u00a0I was about to waive the white flag of surrender when the response came back.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I&#8217;ll make an exception &amp; change the ticket name, what is his name and date of birth?<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>This was a big victory for us. \u00a0My wife was going to have a helper on her trip, no change fees would be paid, and Delta filled the seat that they had already sold to Sally. \u00a0It seems like everyone was a winner at the end of the day. \u00a0Fortunately my patience and understanding paid off.<\/p>\n<h2>What did you learn today?<\/h2>\n<p>Basically we&#8217;ve covered the fact that being SUPER nice to the CSR&#8217;s on Twitter is definitely the way to handle a special circumstance like this. \u00a0Tell them that you appreciate them and how great they are. \u00a0When all was said and done I sent out a shout-out tweet to them like this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>@deltaassist is the bomb. \u00a0These guys really go above and beyond. \u00a0Thank you @delta!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>It is the small things that can really happen if you&#8217;re nice to these people who have the power to help you. \u00a0Remember that you&#8217;ll catch a lot more flies with honey than you will with vinegar!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In life it seems like it is so easy to grab someone by the throat and yell at them when they don&#8217;t tell you what you&#8217;d like to hear. \u00a0Frankly this is the best option in rare scenarios, but sometimes &hellip; 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